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The Only Dangerous Thing About Sex Education for Kids Is Not Having It

May 22, 2025

There’s a myth that talking to kids about sex is risky. That bringing up puberty, bodies, and relationships somehow introduces danger or confusion too early.

But here’s the truth:
The only dangerous thing about sex education… is not having it.

Silence Doesn’t Protect — It Exposes

Many parents delay “the talk” out of love — hoping to protect innocence, avoid discomfort, or wait until their child is "ready." But silence doesn’t shield your child. It creates a vacuum. And that vacuum will be filled — by TikTok, YouTube, search engines, or peers who are just as confused.

When we don’t talk, we don’t protect.
We leave room for misinformation, pressure, and shame to move in instead.

Kids Are Curious — And That’s a Good Thing

Children are naturally curious about their bodies, about changes, and about what’s happening around them. That curiosity is healthy. But if they’re not equipped with real answers, they start to internalize confusing or harmful messages from whatever source they can access.

That’s the real danger — a lack of clarity and connection.

Knowledge Builds Confidence, Not Confusion

Contrary to the myth that sex ed introduces “too much, too soon,” research consistently shows that age-appropriate, values-based sex education leads to safer, healthier, and more confident kids. When kids are informed, they’re better at setting boundaries, respecting others, and making thoughtful decisions.

Sex education is not about taking away innocence.
It’s about giving them power.

You Are the Safest Source

The internet is unfiltered. Friends are untrained. Media is profit-driven.
You are the one who can provide facts wrapped in love, context, and care.

Being their source of truth builds trust. It doesn’t have to be perfect. You just have to be present.

Let’s Take the First Step Together

You don’t have to figure it all out alone. That’s why I created Clarify Sex Education — to help parents like you start these important conversations with clarity, confidence, and calm.

Start today with my free starter bundle, which includes a quick video and guidebook full of tips to make this easier than you ever imagined.

Because sex education isn’t risky.
Not having it is.

Great relationships start with good communication.

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Tune In to the Sean Donohue Show:

Real, Unfiltered Conversations About Sex and Puberty with The Family Coach

Want to dive deeper into the tough conversations about sex, puberty, and relationships? I had the incredible opportunity to be a guest on The Sean Donohue Show, where I had an honest, uncensored conversation about the challenges of talking to kids about these important topics. Joined by Sean Donohue and his co-host, TV's Jordan Steele, we explore everything from the struggles parents face to the importance of open dialogue with kids.

If you're a parent looking for fresh perspectives on navigating puberty and sex education—or just someone passionate about these critical conversations—this episode is for you! Don't miss out on this powerful, real talk.

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